Military suicide: 'I don't want him forgotten'

Spec. Christopher Journeau of Hampton, N.H., died by suicide less than six months after leaving the Army in 2010. The Iraq War veteran was 23. /Family photo

When Jo-Ann Clark invited me into her Stratham, N.H., home six weeks ago to share the story of her soldier son, her first words could have come from any mother who lost a child to suicide: "I don't want him forgotten."

I will never forget Army Spec. Christopher Journeau, and I doubt many readers of the Nov. 3 edition of Seacoast Sunday and seacoastonline.com will forget him, either.

Thousands of U.S. troops and veterans have post-traumatic stress disorder and traumatic brain injuries as a result of their experiences in the Iraq and Afghanistan wars. Journeau's PTSD-fueled descent into suicide is a cautionary tale for every one of them, their families and the country.

Since that first interview in Stratham with Jo-Ann Clark and her husband, Merrill, I have spoken with dozens of Journeau's friends and family members as well as many N.H. suicide prevention officials. Their collective story is not what many citizens would assume.

Like any sprawling bureaucracies, the U.S. government and military have their faults. Veterans do fall through the cracks. But when it comes to suicide among vets, there's no shortage of blame to spread around:

• Many employers discriminate against veterans who have sought psychological treatment, which compels vets to shy away from getting help. 
• Longstanding stigma surrounding mental illness fuels shame and embarrassment, which are the top reasons cited by N.H. veterans polled about why they often avoid seeking treatment.
• There is a widespread lack of awareness about the signs of PTSD and TBI. Many veterans are suffering unseen before our eyes. Friends, family and other members of a troubled vet's community often do not see the warnings of a brewing mental health crisis. When they do, intervening to connect a vet with help can be daunting or come too late.

In short, suicide among veterans is not just a problem for the Pentagon and the Department of Veterans Affairs. It is a problem facing nearly all U.S. citizens, businesses and institutions.

Next Sunday, Nov. 10, www.seacoastonline.com and Seacoast Sunday will publish a second story inspired by Journeau's suicide. This story will focus on the challenge of connecting as many troubled veterans as possible to mental health services.

Many N.H. suicide prevention officials, veterans and family members of vets who died by suicide contributed to the mental health treatment story. So many had so much to say, it was impossible to fit all of them or all of their insightful comments into even a long-form newspaper story. To each and every one of these people: This entire project could not have been possible without your contributions. Suicide is a complex, emotionally charged and taboo topic.Many of the contributors to this project showed extraordinary courage and selflessness.

One of the beauties of Bullwork is bountiful space. Coming soon on Bullwork of Democracy, hear more voices and see more perspectives about veterans who die by suicide.

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